Females When & Why sex may hurt
About one 3rd of the women sadly experience pain during sex. It is unfortunate but if you are having a painful sexual experience with your partners, it could be due to the following reasons
1.Your partner is totally insensitive to your needs, comforts, & pleasure
2.He does it very crudely, roughly & in fast hitting mode may be under the assumptions that, that is what females like
3.He does it only to satisfy himself
4.He may just enter you without arousing you & thereby there is not enough lubrication
5.You have always believed that the sex hurts, it could be due to your childhood growing-up experiences
6.You are very anxious
7.You have a medical condition called Vaginismus, it has a number of different psychological and physiological causes, including infections, sexual assault, fear, and stress
8.Or you have another medical cause called vulvodynia, where It is caused by hypersensitivity, allergies, nerve issues, or genetics
9.Other medical conditions are cysts, skin conditions, abrasions, blisters etc
10.If you sexual pain actually a discomfort or vey mild, spend a lot of time playing around using various foreplay techniques
11. Make your partner give you oral sex & make him use his finger to make you feel comfortable
12.Do not rush, go slow & enjoy others aspects of sex like cuddling, touching, kissing & caressing etc
13.Do kegel exercises, described in another article in this website
14.If the pain persists visit your gynecologist & discuss with her/him your issue & get yourself thoroughly examined & advised
