relationshipandhappiness@gmail.com

banner

Boundaries Which Are Not Effective

These Emotional Boundaries-Don't work

To Be Happy, To Feel worthy, To Feel Good About Ourselves - We all need to set Healthy Emotional Boundaries in All Our Relationships - there are some boundaries which work and others which are not effective

These 13 Emotional Boundaries which won't work

  • 1.Boundaries that often fail are those that include the words - always, never or any other absolute terminology – examples - you can never or you must always
  • 2.Conditional boundaries – if you don't do this – you won't get that
  • 3.Vague boundaries – like don't spend a lot of money this
  • 4.Expecting your partner to know your boundaries – without sharing these with them
  • 5.Language which can make your partner defensive
  • 6.When you are always ordering or telling them what to do
  • 7.When you use warnings about the consequences
  • 8.When you bring up the past of what wrong they did
  • 9.When you give them solutions – without being asked
  • 10.When you preach - about what people should and should not do
  • 11.When you only criticize
  • 12.When you start mind-reading and guessing AND assume that to be the truth without verifying
  • 13.When you make them feel guilty


#EmotionalBoundariesWhichDon'tWork, #EmotionalBoundariesThatFails, #ConditionalEmotionalBoundaries, #VagueEmotionalBoundaries, #ExpectingYourPartnerToKnowYourBoundaries, #LanguageWhichMakesPeopleDefensive, #WarningAboutConsequences, #WhenYouPreach, #WhenYouOnlyCriticize, #WhenYouStartMindReading, #WhenYouMakeThemFeelGuilty

How Women with traumatic past relationships self-s...
Dating boundaries you must follow - if in a new re...
 

Comments

No comments made yet. Be the first to submit a comment
Already Registered? Login Here
Guest
Thursday, 13 February 2025

Captcha Image