Identifying Who Is Your Ideal Mate
Most of us start thinking of true love or a soul mate or a life partner, without even creating a profile or knowing who we are looking for.
And because of this reason alone, we get stuck with wrong people & ruin our happiness.
In the relationship also like job or clothes, there exist mis-match, nice-fit, lose-fit, misifit or un-fit.
To avoid disappointment later, do the following home work
I.Identify physical attribute that you want in your partner like, height, weight, body type, hair color, ethnicity, or anything that you would want
II.Type of values
III.Lifestyles
IV.Profession
V.Interest & hobbies
VI.Beliefs on Spirituality, Money matters, Relationship, Politics, Religion etc etc
VII.Then with each qualities that you have identified, clarify which are not-negotiable[e.g. height should not be less than 5'2"]
VIII.Then do the rain check for each qualities by asking yourself & sleeping over it many times "I this quality is missing & rest of them are there, would I accept or let of this person"
IX.Identify the questions that you would ask your prospective partner for confirming his/her views on sharing expenses, children working etc
X.Next find few near-fits & start dating
XI.After few dates you would know whom you would go for longer time
XII.Then start courtship
XIII.If after courtship either of you feel disappointed start search from scratch again
XIV.If you have identified the ideal mate then get married
XV.After getting married follow the recipe for making your life magical
