Why Being Friends With You Ex Never Works Out
A Breakup, Especially After A Long Relationship Is One Of The Most Traumatic Personal Experiences And There Is No Need To Make It Harder On Yourself By Even Entertaining The Thought Of Ever Getting Reunited Or Him/Her Coming Back To You.
The Reasons Are Following, Especially If It Is Your First Break-Up & Both Of You Or Only You Tried Everything To Bring This Relationship On The Track & Yet Reached A Separation Stage And Went For The Legal Recourse.
- 1.However Was The Initial Relationship, There Were Issues Both Could Not Deal With
- 2.Many Times After The Break-Up We Start Ignoring The Bad Part & Start Focusing On The Good Ones, Especially If We Are Feeling A Great Void And Need The Alternative/Substitute Relationship
- 3.Many Times Because We Are Feeling Great, We Feel That Ok We Can Always Look Back And Work On The Relationship Again To Make It Great
- 4.Many Times Because We Are Not Getting A New Start In Knowing Someone New, We Start Fantasizing About Getting Back With Our Ex
- 5.Many Times Because Our Ex Start Stalking Or Following You Or Making Excuses, A Veil Comes To Our Brain That Does Not Make Us Think Objectively
- 6.Then Especially If You Have Moved On Or Your Ex Has Moved On To A New Relationship, Being Friend With Your Ex Will Jeopardize Many More Relationship
- 7.Your Relationship With Ex Would Never Be Same. It Is Just An Impossible Wishful Thinking
- 8.Both Of You Would Not Be Putting The Same Efforts You Initially Did, In Case You Get Back To Your Ex
- 9.Most Of The People Who Get Back With Their Ex, Find That Same Issues Start Cropping Again & Again
- 10.That Is Why It Is Better To Avoid Your Ex & Move On With Your Life