Bouncing back to life with zeal after a Bad Date

Bouncing back to life with zeal after a Bad Date

All our dates begins with excitements, hopes of thrill & fun.

Some first date do go this way.

But some dates becomes either of or some of the combination of the following

So how do you bounce back from a dissatisfying date

1.Identify what all went wrong
I.Your date came late
II.Your date came late but instead of being apologetic he/she was full of himself/herself
III.One or both of you were off-mood
IV.One or both of you had bad experience that day or immediately before
V.Both of you or one of you was uncomfortable with each other
VI.It was a one sided conversation
VII.Both of you or one of you realized there is a compatibility issue
VIII.You felt your date was over demanding
IX.You felt your date was trying to force you into doing things you were not comfortable with
X.Your date made jokes about your looks, clothes, background
XI.Your date had very negative pre-conceived opinion about you
XII.List any other thing which made the date bad
2.Find out whether it was something to do with you or your date
3.Identify whether it was compatibility issue, thank God for that
4.Identify whether it was a values issue, thank God for that
5.Take responsibility for your part, Apologize if you need to
6.If it was the anxiety, shyness, pressure or similar issue, do not give up on your date
7.If you feel that the relationship has silver lining, despite being a dissatisfying encounter, give it another try
8.Don't take it personally, if your date do not responds to your texts, calls & messages
9.Even if it was a failure, take time & start dating again to find your that special someone