Why conflicts happens & remain unresolved
Are you living with endless rows, shouting, stonewalling, false blames, name calling, wrong accusations constant fights & arguments.
Does your every conversations end by making you both more distant & adding on to the unresolved piles of more mis-understanding, more stress & more anger/disgust /hatred related issues towards your partner & low self-esteem about yourself.
The anger, frustration & stress that comes from old issues/problems coming back yet again
Do You or your partner start questioning whether you are compatible.
Does the following happens when you converse, at least most of time
1.Try to settle scores
2.Try to prove that you are right & the other is wrong
3.Playing victim, or persecutor or the rescuer
4.Playing blame game
5.Not listening to the reasonable & rational discussions of your partner
6.Only talking from your perspective & mindset based on incorrect perception, image & beliefs
7.A need which compels you to win the argument & have the last word always
8.Manipulating & situations in your way
9.Diverting attention & taking it to an tangent, when you are caught on a wrong foot
10.Putting your love for the person in the trash can, only focusing on hurting & winning
11.Using emotional, mental & physical blackmail techniques to get your way
12.Shouting, throwing tantrums, crying, creating scene, when you feel as if you are losing
13.Abusing your partner verbally & physically
14.Digging all the past issues, even those, which you have already spoken about & seemingly settled
15.Controlling through Name calling
If you constantly use the above methods yourself or at the receiving end from your partner, it only can lead the person facing towards long-term psychological problems
