When discussions turned into unresolved conflict or dispute
- 1.When you start attacking the personality
- 2.When you start digging & start digging out the past
- 3.When the focus is on proving who is right rather than what is right
- 4.When name calling starts
- 5.When instead of listening to understand you start listening to answer to win the argument
- 6.When the major topic is sidetracked
- 7.When you start focusing on complaints rather than solutions
- 8.When you forget that both side can be right
- 9.When you stop listening
- 10.When you start operating from I am right platform
- 11.When you want to dominate & control the other rather than build bridges
- 12.When you are finding a cause to insult, abuse, punish your partner
