Handling Dishonest & Toxic People
When you meet new people, date few, or go for a relationship with someone, you are always going to come across people who are
1.Dishonest
2.Have cheating on their mind from the very beginning as they have cheated before
3.Going to take advantage of your vulnerabilities
4.Sociopaths & people with psychological issues
5.People who are coming together on a rebound after a past failed relationship from which they have not yet healed
6.People who have multiple relationships & you are one more of them
What to do when you learn about your partner having any of these above traits
1.You have to break free from this person immediately
2.If you were very attached, you will solid hurt, it will pain like hell. Which is likely to be the case as these people especially the sociopaths are very magnetic, mesmerizing & charming to make you completely hooked
3.But these people are only after their needs they have no concerns with your hurts, your feelings, your needs, your pain.
4.Do not even thinking about continuing with these people in the hope that you can change them with reason or logic, it does not work with them
5.They are totally non-empathic towards you, they only focused on their own agenda & needs
6.Don't try to reason with them, as you can never win with these people on arguments. Instead you may end up feeling worse
7.Yes you must verify by asking direct questions, Don't drop the matter until you get the answers
8.Get few opinions including professional counselors
9.If your gut feeling & sixth sense & within you says your partner has done wrong & he/she is not the right person, chances are it is correct
10.Dishonest people will sometimes try to turn the tables and make you a scapegoat, refuse to be that
11.Don't let anybody push you beyond your boundaries
12.Please Understand that all the above 6 traits are never a one-time act, it is an act, Often, a person who will deceive you once will deceive you again
13.Don't even thinking of thinking of fixing your partner, nobody can
14.Don't feel responsible for taking control of their life & setting that right
15.Disconnect with the other person as fast as possible
