How to be an Alpha Male

How to be an Alpha Male

We would be covering the qualities, tendencies, attitudes, actions of an Authentic-Complete-MAN, who creates the balance of the masculine and feminine qualities.

There was a wonderful conceptual movie “An Officer and a Gentleman”

The 60 qualities of Alpha man - Steps You Need to Take to Become an Alpha Male, the macho-man or masculine-man – almost all these points have Do it yourself blogs in success unlimited mantra as well as relationship and happiness

1. The Gentleman, the Macho-man, the Beta-man and The Alpha-man are all one and the same
2. They are generally emotionally-Mature
3. All about being a gentleman, alpha-man, beta-man, macho-man And all about the paradox between female desire, craving, wanting and what they actually need in a man - the enigma of female mystery.
4. They are committed to create balance between all different roles they play in life - like family, professional and social etc.
5. They are Chivalrous
6. They treat women with respect BUT give them wide space
7. They take care of their women BUT don’t impose themselves on them
8. They make a woman feel womanly
9. They create charming impressions through their manners, communications, expressions and how they treat others
10. Their Posture and body language is relaxed and at ease with the environment
11. They are assertive internally[on what they want and don’t want as well as in their self-talk and self-image] as well as externally [with other people and circumstances
12. They have the courage and maturity to say No [when something does not add positive value to them]– in a way which earns them respect rather than offend others
13. They Express their views, opinions and feelings frankly without any inhibitions
14. They disagree with their woman in respectful manner - without hesitation
15. They are Independent and consciously nurture the skill of being unique and always stand out without following the crowd
16. Can boldly approach even strangers - women in particular - initiating the dialogue to create the opportunity
17. They are emotionally mature to have high empathy as well as social-quotient
18. They don’t get provoked by slight provocations
19. They compete on equal footings and most of the time with themselves
20. They would never compare themselves or their loved ones with others
21. They face the challenges as well as enjoy the life’s gifts with equal comfort
22. They become powerful through improving themselves by constantly working on themselves by raising the bar themselves
23. They don’t go for dominating and controlling others
24. They respect and value themselves fully and completely
25. They accept and love themselves fully and unconditionally being aware of their flaws and weaknesses
26. They take exceptional care of themselves and their loved ones
27. They are Fully dependable
28. They value their own as well as other’s time
29. They are highly disciplined about the important things in life
30. They have hobbies that makes them stretch beyond their comfort zones AND also are challenging to them like - rock climbing, surfing, wilderness survival and long-term hiking adventures, and long-distance running etc. etc..
31. They believe and live quality with focus on creating excellence
32. They Listen when others speak by giving them their complete attention
33. They never let their failures define them nor to make them give-up
34. They are action-people and take actions to bounce back from disappointments, upsets, crises etc. – as soon as possible
35. They are well read and aware about different cultures, people and what is happening in professional and in the world in general
36. They are comfortable with changes and Accept the challenges that life sends them
37. They are always on the lookout for opportunities and newer changes AND create opportunities
38. They Take justifiable risks
39. Their true distinction is because they are willing to risk pain, setbacks, failures or a deeper understanding of their own capabilities in order to gain something they truly want for themselves
40. They work on mastering SENSE OF HUMOR AND HUMILITY
41. They practice being “GENTLE” as  “GENTLEMAN” – because they believe that a real man is not a bully
42. They work on being presentable by Maintaining proper hygiene, Grooming, clothes – even if they don’t have enough money – they carry themselves well with what they have
43. They ensure being elegant in whatever they do
44. They have firm handshake, confident and easy walk
45. They Help the people around them
46. They stand-up for those who can’t for themselves
47. They focus their attention on others during conversations AND Don't talk about themselves much
48. They Treat everyone with respect – and never talk down to women
49. They are focused and understand the difference between what's important and what isn't
50. They don’t waste time, efforts and energies on stupidities that does not add value to them
51. They know the importance of family and relationships
52. They avoid gossip, back-biting and arguments
53. They are fully self-aware and clear - who can see their deepest failures and weaknesses, and have the courage to work on them
54. They have the courage not to hide and have the courage not to cover-up their mistakes, weakness and failures – INSTEAD – they accept them AND work on them
55. If they have hurt someone or wrong someone – they not only accept their mistake and apologize – they also try to make it up
56. They focus on long-term rather than on quick fixes
57. They clear philosophies, principles, passions, values
58. They never let pressure of any kind to deviate from their mission
59. They are respectable
60. They Have the Courage to Fail Gloriously

Ultimately - irrespective of whatever you call yourself, please understand that Alpha Males are those who earn respect through actions of substance, courtesy, and generosity to all people, not always the ones with the loudest voices or the biggest muscles.

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