Things to Know & Do Before Your first sex
To avoid disappointments, regret & the sentence "I wish I knew that" – please understand the following
1.If your first sexual intercourse is going to take place on your wedding night, it better to avoid having sex on that day as your & your partner's anxieties, & nervousness[it is first time for them too], both of your tiredness, may not make it the way storybooks make it out to be. Instead talk about your expectations, have conversations, feel each other, relax. Plan for next day nicely
2.Because of nervousness, please do-not go & get drunk. Be sober
3.Learn & spend a lot of time in foreplay to relax & explore each other
4.If you can do it with the lights on, then it will help both of you lose a lot of inhibitions
5.Understand it is going to be awkward & if you don't enjoy it first time it is okay. Many people don't like kiss first few times
6.Understand it maybe the male partner will ejaculate soon
7.Make it slow do not rush
8.If the male is not able to insert his penis, ask your partner to put iit with her finger on the right spot
9.If the female has hymen, then you may not succeed in having penetrating sex the first night, it may take few attempts or few nights
10.You should use lubricants as much as possible
11.Males do not try to show your strength, macho-ness or your stamina, you may be highly disappointed
12.Males, Never try to use porn techniques on your partner, they are not real. Do not force your partner to give you blow job in first few times.
