How Successful Couples fight differently.
All couples have disagreements, but it's the way they discuss & fight that determines if their relationship will last & the quality of their intimacy and closeness
- 1.They Do not attack the character, personality or weaknesses of your partner
2.They don't run away from fights & fight fair
3.They don't avoid confrontation
4.They listen, they clarify, they understand other's perspective
5.They do not blame, accuse or drag the past
6.They believe in having discussions not fight or arguments
7.They don't try to put down or insult other partner
8.They accept their mistake whenever they recognize one
9.They apologize for their mistakes
10.They make up for their mistakes
11.They do not repeat their mistakes
12. They follow the ground rules during fight- 13.They do not fight when both or one of them is angry
- 15.They ultimately able to empathize with other's point of view
16. They give each other the benefit of the doubt
17. They always remember that they are couples not enemies
