How to avoid divorce or separation
Although for various reasons which could be financial, social, personality clash, ego, psychological issues, cultural difference etc, you can never 100% make yourself divorce or separation proof.
But you can the following steps to create great love & by working together to have a fine life as a couple.
They are both to be done & also to avoid doing by both of you. Most of it is about what not to do. The doing part is given in many other articles on the subject in this website.
1.No cheating or infidelity
2.Bring your Ego of position, earning, social status etc in the relationship
3.Poor communication
4.Not having proper physical sex & making love
5.Not caring
6.Taking others for granted
7.Financial issues
8.Getting bored with one another
9.Not having exciting, deeper & meaningful conversations
10.Not expressing feelings openly
11.Not resolving conflicts & letting them pile up
12.Attacking on weak points of your partner
13.Hitting below the belt
14.Holding grudge
15.Being in a revengeful mood
16.Not clarifying expectations clearly & openly
17.Not fighting fair
18.Trying to change your partner
19.Blaming your partner
20.Choking your partner with unwarranted complaints, accusations, abuse, time-hoarding etc
21.Only focusing on your need
22.No empathy with your partner's hurt, needs & expectations
23.No making up after making mistakes
24.Not taking accountability to put your part of efforts
25.Not creating fun, surprises, playful mood
26.Not try to remain attractive to each other
27.Not listening to each other
28.Not noticing the danger signs when they appear first till it is too late
29.Operating from Suspicion, hate, doubt & fear instead of Hope, faith & love
30.Not understanding that your partner can add to your happiness—but isn't responsible for it. Only you are responsible for your own happiness
31.Nagging constantly
32.Not spending quality time together
33.Not taking break from each other as well as together
